How could you ever know what perfect
is, unless you tried something imperfect? What is the difference
between theory and practice? In theory there is no difference. In
reality there is. What you might consider as perfect without trying
anything out, might be very well totally unsatisfying. I am not
going to extremes here by saying you should date at least 100 lithuanian
women before you know what you want. But there may be some truth
in it. If you consider a perfect partner as someone who thinks and
feels exactly the same then think again. In the long run it may
feel like a brothersister relationship or lithuania dating. Moreover
you may spoil your relationship when you realize that there aresome
differences in feeling and in thinking. These differing attitudes
should not matter. Better prepare yourself for a lithuania ladies
who differs but is basically similar matching. You will differ anyway
in some points. It is up to you what level of difference you may
tolerate. You should worry more about a differing style regarding
child raising. Or whether your single lithuania girls are a wanted
criminal. Or about your single lithuania women attitude to free
love. There is a mystery regarding wanting the perfect partner.
Maybe only those get such a partner, who don't want it grimly. Maybe
only those get such a partner who decided to want it, but then stopped
to desperately want it. Maybe only those with a spirit of play get
what they want? Words like forever are spread thruout love songs
as if they were propaganda. These words are not romantic, if you
think about it. Is a life sentence romantic? For your own peace
of mind, do not use words like forever in any of your Russian dating.
Maybe I sound too philosophical here, but nothing is forever, thus
you'd introduce a lie into your partnership and you would probably
break your own eternal word by leaving your lithuanian bride. Also
the concept of till death do us part is another factor in this misconception
of relationships. It can even make you wish that your lithuanian
girls should die to stop this oath. Have you ever seen old couples
who hate each other? In our fast changing times it is very uncommon
to meet a partner and stay with him for the rest of the life. Thus
we can safely assume that it is not unusual if your partner will
not be the last or probably will be not the best of all possible
partners. How about making your goal to stay with your partner,
say, 2 years? You can always decide to stay longer. But by making
unrealistic goals like "We will stay together until we die
makes you run directly into a failure. And why should you fail totally
unnecessary? Are you religious and do you believe that every marriage
is for eternity? I do not have any real argument against this, since
one cannot argue very well with beliefs. But if you believe in eternal
love, you might as well believe that suffering in marriage is god's
test. I do not know why god should test us via lithuanian dating
troubles, but maybe this explains why god is not married. A good
way to find a really good lithuania bride is becoming one oneself
first. Instead of spending time to find the perfect match you should
spend time to become a great husband yourself. Once you are a man
who will be a great husband finding a matching wife becomes much
easier. It's like looking for the perfect book for years instead
of learning how to read first. The same applies to lithuanian ladies.
Instead of looking for a great husband just become a great wife
yourself.
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